The head of the class...

Dear Tazz,

See - once upon a time, I didn't like giving blowjobs for personal
reasons. I have gotten over my hangups but just haven't had occasion
to use my talents in recent years. So I would like to know some do's and don'ts
about handling a man's cock in my mouth...

Signed,

M.

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Dear M,

Relax. It's going to be okay. Performing oral on a man, is quite easy, really. And the beauty of it is,
what works on one penis will usually work on them all. So don't worry. Practice makes perfect and your man
will certainly be receptive to your learning process.

What's the first rule of giving head: You have to like doing it. Women make be able to fake orgasms worthy
of Academy Awards, but they can't fake this one. You either like giving head, or you dont' and we know in two seconds.
Seriously. You think you're fooling us, but you're not. And there's nothing worse than getting head from a
woman who doesn't like doing it but does it anyway because she feels she has to. We'd rather you not do it at all,
and make it up to us in other areas than suffer through a unenthusiastic performance on your part. So if you
don't want to do it, don't, and don't let the whining of your boyfriend/fuckbuddy/whoever try and convince you to do otherwise.

So you really want to improve your skils? Here are some tips from a guy's perspective:

 Swallow. that's a huge turn on,
and take every last drop of it. it's easier said that done sometimes,
because some guys can produce alot, and be advised that by swallowing a man's ejaculation,
you are essentially having unprotected sex, and thus are putting yourself at risk for
all the usual bad diseases, so you either want to save this for someone you're in a serious realtionship
with, or not allow him to cum in your mouth, or run to the bathroom and spit it out.

Deep throating is also good. Take it all in, if you can, come back up, lick the head,
stare deep into his eyes as you work his shaft. Many many enjoy a good bit of the ball handling.
What's that? Suck 'em. Suck 'em good. Done right, it can lead to a mind blowing orgasm. Done wrong,
and he make wind up a watercooler story at the local E.R. How to do it you say?

Take the balls in your mouth, one at a time and suck, but gently, they are delicate
and the wrong move can hurt badly. Lick and stroke the taint(the area between the anus and
the scrotum, this is often a highly sensitive and undiscovered area on your man's body,
one that if properly attended to, can easily send him over the edge.

Another note is speed. Women, like it slow and steady, but that's not often the way guys like their head.
And often a high rate of speed is needed when sucking cock or when performing a hand job. Why? Men
often learn about their penises through masturbation, and activity that for guys, is usually done
in a situation where they are at the risk of being discovered, so they often go hard and fast, so as to cum
as soon as possibly, thus avoiding discovery. So take that into consideration. Ask you man to stroke it for you
till he cums and take notes.

Also, suction is good. Many men really love the feeling of a womans lips around them, the wet sensation it creates,
and they may not need any hand job action or fancy porn techniques. Experiment freely and without concern
about the outcome. Just focus on giving your partner sensual pleasure, and getting better each time, and he'll thank you for
it.